Team meeting at my boss’s house

Hello,

Very simply I work remote but every few weeks or so we get together in the office for a team meeting. My manager has decided that the next one be at his house, kind turn it into a social I guess. I am very uncomfortable with this and feel it’s crossing a boundary I don’t want to. Additionally his place is not that straight forward to get to and it would take me about 5 hours to travel there either by train or plane.

He indicated that this is something he did quite a lot at this old organisation. So I think he feels it’s pretty normal. Nobody else in my team is too thrilled but they won’t make a fuss. I feel if I am the only one who pushes back I will be singled out as a bad team player.

Any thoughts?